Blabbable Secrets

I can’t stand her boyfriend. I can hardly wait for them to break up. She had the nerve to ask if he could come to her father’s graduation this weekend. My mind played out what I would have said: no, hell no, and he’s not welcome at the house or the graduation! Instead I told her that it wasn’t really up to me. (In other words, ask your dad!? Duh!?)

Talk about throwing a curve ball damper into a day that we have waited on for an extremely long time. So no, the boyfriend can not come to our event. He was not invited. He’s not welcome. He can pretty much kiss my ass!? Why can’t she be just a tad bit more thoughtful? Maybe we don’t want to celebrate with her jackass boyfriend!?

Then she asks me what the plans are for father’s day. Of course I’m already on the defensive so I ask her why? And she says it’s because she’s planning on doing some babysitting that day. I say to her, “Who on earth would ask you to baby sit on Father’s Day!?” So she’s like, “Don’t worry Mom..it’s not like I’m not going to see you guys that day.”

Lucky for this one time her Dad doesn’t care if some other Dad asked her to baby sit for him on Father’s Day. You know, I would think that Dad’s would want to spend time with their kids on Father’s day or at least try and take a moment to remember that other families have Father’s on Father’s Day too.

My final straw on that one is that I’m not going to borrow trouble. As long as it doesn’t bother my husband, her Dad, then I will not make a stink out of it. I do still think it’s pretty shitty to ask somebody to watch your kids on Father’s Day. WTF?