Blabbable Secrets

Yep, he’s flying into town today. He doesn’t have a drivers license because he’s had so many DUI’s that the judge finally took his away and he is on probationary period. Hopefully at some point he will learn his lesson? At almost 40 years of age I highly doubt it.

Ok, so he’s flying into town today. We are going to pick him up at some point either from the airport or the hotel where he is going to stay. My daughter says that is what she wants so that is what we will do… but only together… her and I. She will not be spending time with him alone unless we are in the same public space and I can pop into a shop next door. That’s just the way it’s going to have to be. Supervised visitation is all he gets until she gets to know him a little better and can see for herself where she wants the relationship to go.

My husband and I are putting our best foot forward. We are prepared to have him out to the house but will make arrangements for the little ones to be somewhere else. They don’t need their little hearts broken at this point in their life. We will protect them at all costs. Besides, we have no idea how much of a relationship he wants to have with our oldest daughter, if any at all. It’s a lot that he’s even flying into town to watch her graduate.

So I will try and pop on here throughout this experience and keep y’all posted. It’s good for me to get it all out. Wish us luck and keep all of us in your prayers. Who knows… maybe this meeting with his daughter will be the fire that instigates him to get himself together for once? Can he do it? Will he do it? Only time will tell…?